As a family law attorney, I’ve seen how year-end chaos can quickly become a breeding ground for conflict among co-parents. While December is often filled with holiday spirit, it’s also a time when school calendars change, court schedules slow down, and family expectations run high.
Through my “Talk to Tiffany”approach, I encourage parents to use this time not only to reflect—but also to reset and plan ahead.
Why December Matters in Family Law:The last month of the year is more than just a countdown to the ball drop. It’s a chance to review what worked—and what didn’t—when it comes to your custody arrangements, communication strategies, and co-parenting goals.
Did the holiday handoffs go smoothly? Were there unexpected conflicts around school breaks or travel? Did your child express confusion or distress about changing routines?
These are all indicators that your parenting plan might need adjusting—before the New Year begins.
My End-of-Year Legal 4-Point Checklist for Co-Parents
1. Evaluate Your Current Plan: If your child’s needs have changed or your life circumstances have shifted, it may be time to revise your custody agreement. It’s better to update a plan in advance than scramble once school starts or summer camps open for registration.
2. Account for Court Closures: Many family courts operate with reduced hours or close completely between Christmas and New Year’s. If you foresee issues that may require court intervention, act now—or be prepared to wait until mid-January for action.
3. Align 2026 School Schedules with Your Parenting Time: Most elementary, middle, and high schools publish academic calendars well in advance, often covering holidays and breaks through the end of the school year. Review these schedules now to ensure your parenting plan aligns with school breaks, pick-up times.
4. Center Mental Health: Children—and especially teens—crave routine. The emotional whiplash of moving between households can take a toll. Predictability isn’t just convenient; it’s calming.
Planning Provides Peace:I often tell my clients that good family law is preventative, not reactive. You don’t have to wait until there’s a crisis to make changes. The end of the year is a perfect time to check in, communicate clearly, and prepare your family for a more peaceful, organized, and joyful 2026.
Start the New Year off right and “Talk to Tiffany.”
Tiffany L. Andrews is a family law attorney serving Northern California. She specializes in custody, divorce, and child support cases, offering dedicated legal support for families navigating significant transitions. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visitwww.tlalawoffice.comor call 916-790-8440.
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