The new year brings a sense of renewal—a time for setting goals, making resolutions, and taking bold steps toward a better future. For many, it’s also a time to confront difficult decisions about their relationships. As a family law attorney, I’ve come to recognize January as “Divorce Month,” a time when inquiries about divorce and separation spike.
Why does this happen? From post-holiday reflection to practical planning for the year ahead, January represents a turning point for many people who have been contemplating divorce. The start of a new year brings the opportunity to take control of your life, set new goals, and create a healthier environment for yourself and your family.
Why January Is Known as ‘Divorce Month’
1. Post-Holiday Reflection
The holiday season often emphasizes family togetherness, which can bring existing relationship issues to the forefront. For many, the stress of the holidays magnifies cracks in their relationship. Once the festivities end, they feel ready to address their concerns and take action toward meaningful change.
2. A Practical Time to Start Fresh
The start of a new calendar year provides a natural point for making significant life changes. Whether it’s setting resolutions or making tough decisions like ending a marriage, the new year feels like the right time to take control of your future.
3. Timing for Financial and Legal Planning
January aligns with year-end financial reviews, tax preparations, and planning for the year ahead. It’s a practical time to assess financial matters, gather necessary documents, and prepare for the legal process. Starting early gives clients a head start on building a strong case and setting themselves up for success.
My Advice for a ‘Fresh Start’
If you’re considering divorce, here are three key pieces of advice to help you take the first step with confidence:
1. Seek Legal Advice Early
The first step in navigating a divorce is to consult with an experienced family law attorney. Understanding your rights and options will help you make informed decisions about your future.
2. Focus on Emotional and Financial Well-Being
Divorce is a challenging process, but prioritizing your emotional and financial health is essential. Taking care of yourself during this time will lay the foundation for a smoother transition and a stronger future.
3. Take It One Step at a Time
Divorce doesn’t happen overnight—it’s a journey. Having the right legal guidance can help you navigate each step with clarity and confidence, ensuring that your best interests are protected throughout the process.
Moving Forward
If you’ve been contemplating divorce and feel ready to take the next step, you don’t have to face it alone. Through my Talk to Tiffany approach, I provide compassionate, personalized support to help individuals and families move forward with strength and clarity. Together, we can create a plan that prioritizes your well-being and lays the groundwork for a brighter future.
Tiffany L. Andrews is a family law attorney serving Northern California. She specializes in custody, divorce, and child support cases, offering dedicated legal support for families navigating significant transitions. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit www.tlalawoffice.com or call 916-790-8440. Her columns appear regularly in Folsom Times where she is a supporting advertiser to the popular platform.
