March is Women’s History Month, a time to celebrate the achievements of women while also recognizing the challenges they continue to face. As a family law attorney, I see firsthand the struggles many women experience in divorce and custody cases. Too often, women feel powerless in these legal matters because they don’t fully understand their rights—or they assume they must accept unfair settlements.

That’s why my Talk to Tiffany approach is about more than legal representation—it’s about empowering women to navigate these challenges with confidence and clarity. Whether you’re considering a divorce, fighting for custody, or seeking financial support, knowing your rights is the first step toward securing a better future for yourself and your children.

Understanding Your Rights in Divorce and Custody Cases

1. Your Right to Fair Division of Assets

One of the biggest concerns women have in divorce is how their assets will be divided. California is a community property state, which means all marital assets are typically divided equally unless there is a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement, or the parties agree otherwise.

However, it’s important to advocate for yourself in this process. Your contributions—both financially and emotionally—should be recognized. Whether you’ve sacrificed a career to raise children or supported your spouse’s professional growth, your role matters. Don’t assume that equal means fair—know what you’re entitled to and stand firm in securing it.

2. Child Custody and Your Role as a Mother

Many women fear losing custody of their children in a divorce, but California law does not favor one parent over the other based on gender. Instead, courts focus on the child’s best interests, which include factors such as:

  • Parental involvement and the existing bond between parent and child
  • The ability to provide a stable home environment
  • Each parent’s role in caregiving

I always remind mothers: You have the right to fight for a fair custody arrangement that prioritizes your child’s well-being. A strong legal strategy can help ensure that your voice is heard in court.

3. Your Right to Child Support and Alimony

Many women hesitate to pursue child support or spousal support because they fear being labeled as dependent. But here’s the truth: These financial provisions exist to protect your stability and your child’s future.

Child support ensures that both parents continue to contribute financially to their child’s upbringing, while alimony (spousal support) may be awarded to help a lower-earning spouse maintain a reasonable standard of living after divorce. Never hesitate to pursue what you and your children need to thrive.

My Advice for Women Facing Divorce and Custody Challenges

If you’re going through a divorce or custody dispute, here’s what I advise:

1. Know Your Rights and Seek Legal Guidance Early

The earlier you consult an experienced family law attorney, the better prepared you’ll be to protect your assets, parental rights, and financial future. Understanding the legal process empowers you to make informed decisions rather than reacting out of fear or uncertainty.

2. Approach Custody with a Focus on Your Children’s Best Interests

The court’s priority is always the child’s well-being. When negotiating custody, focus on creating a stable, supportive environment rather than “winning” the case. A child-centered approach often leads to the best outcomes for everyone involved.

3. Never Settle for Less Than You Deserve

Women often feel pressured to settle quickly just to “get it over with.” But rushing through a divorce settlement or custody agreement can lead to long-term consequences that affect your financial security and parental rights. Take your time, know your worth, and negotiate from a position of strength.

Empowering Women for a Better Future

Women should never feel alone in navigating the legal system. My goal is to help women feel confident and secure as they make decisions that will shape their futures. Through my Talk to Tiffany approach, I provide the knowledge, tools, and legal support needed to ensure that women’s rights are fully protected.

If you are facing divorce, child custody, or financial support challenges, I’m here to help. Let’s talk about how you can take control of your future—because every woman deserves to feel empowered in family law.

About the Author
Tiffany L. Andrews is a Folsom resident and family law attorney serving Northern California. She specializes in custody, divorce, and child support cases, offering dedicated legal support for families navigating significant transitions. For more information or to schedule a consultation, visit www.tlalawoffice.com or call 916-790-8440.